The first time I kissed a girl was because her boyfriend asked us to.
I’m not proud of that and wish I could go back to my seventeen year old self and say “No! Kiss her later away from his horny teen boy eyeballs.”
But at the time, all I thought to myself, “I get it. I see why boys like kissing us!”
I still didn’t realize this was very Not Straight Thoughts to have about your friend who you thought was very pretty and liked to watch her dance because maybe it made you swoon a little and her soft hands gave you butterflies. Those are obviously thoughts to have as a Very Supportive Friend.
Also Not Straight: buying matching rainbow pajamas from Victoria’s Secret and matching keychains with hearts on them and preferring to go on friend dates with her and never with the boy I was “dating”.
Ooops.